02377cam a2200265 i 4500 365188007 TxAuBib 20190109120000.0 181103s2018||||||||||||||||||||||||eng|u 9781684030460 16.95 1684030463 16.95 eng rda TxAuBib rda Kreisman, Jerold J, (Jerold Jay.) Talking to a loved one with borderline personality disorder [BOOK] : communication skills to manage intense emotions, set boundaries, & reduce conflict / Jerold J. Kreisman; foreword by Randi Kreger. Oakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications, Inc., 2018. ix, 180 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm. txt rdacontent n rdamedia nc rdacarrier Includes bibliographic resources. In this compassionate guide, Jerold Kreisman-author of I Hate You, Don't Leave Me-offers a powerful set of tools to help you express yourself, set boundaries, and cultivate healthy communication with a loved one who is diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD). If you have a loved one with BPD, you need real, proven-effective strategies to help you navigate the intense emotions and conflict that can arise in daily interactions and conversations. People with BPD often feel anger, pain, and hurt from a history of invalidation and disappointment, and their difficulty in regulating emotions can lead to moments of lashing out that can confuse and upset those around them. Written by a psychiatrist with more than 40 years of experience in treating BPD, Talking to a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder offers a breakthrough, compassionate approach to communicating with a loved one who has BPD. The SET (support, empathy, truth) method outlined in this book is a powerful and simple tool that will allow you to honestly address your loved one's demands, assertions, and feelings while still maintaining appropriate boundaries. Each step builds on the last, helping you build up a consistent and reliable communication process. Provided by publisher. 20190109. Borderline personality disorder Patients Family relationships. Borderline personality disorder.