02463cam a2200337 i 4500 381765565 TxAuBib 20190517120000.0 181028s2019||||||||||||||||||||||||eng|u 2018051327 9781640091818 26.00 1640091815 26.00 eng rda TxAuBib rda Sexton, Jared. The man they wanted me to be [BOOK] : toxic masculinity and a crisis of our own making / Jared Yates Sexton. Berkeley, California : Counterpoint, 2019. 254 pages ; 24 cm. txt rdacontent n rdamedia nc rdacarrier A hard, small cage -- My father's son -- A crisis of our own making. Based on his provocative and popular New York Times op-ed, The Man They Wanted Me to Be is both memoir and cultural analysis. Jared Yates Sexton alternates between an examination of his working class upbringing and historical, psychological, and sociological sources that examine the genesis of toxic masculinity and its consequences for society. As progressivism changes American society, and globalism shifts labor away from traditional manufacturing, the roles that have been prescribed to men since the Industrial Revolution have been rendered as obsolete. Donald Trump's campaign successfully leveraged male resentment and entitlement, and now, with Trump as president and the rise of the #MeToo movement, it's clear that our current definitions of masculinity are outdated and even dangerous. Deeply personal and thoroughly researched, The Man They Wanted Me to Be examines how we teach boys what's expected of men in America, and the long-term effects of that socialization-which include depression, shorter lives, misogyny, and suicide. Sexton turns his keen eye to the establishment of the racist patriarchal structure which has favored white men, and investigates the personal and societal dangers of such outdated definitions of manhood. Provided by publisher. 1270L Lexile. 20190517. Sexton, Jared. Men Socialization United States. Masculinity United States. Authors, American 21st century Biography. Journalists United States Biography. Biographies.